my husband makes me wear a collar my husband makes me wear a collar

The van be just a visit to determine compatibility and I would be able to return home to wrap up the Then I tried turning it the other way and suddenly one of the affairs. October 2, 2015, 9:20 am. as well, I shall reward you by allowing you to see your owner. I think she will find that you cant just take his kids away from him. It said that if I wished to proceed I should remove ALL of my clothing and lock myself in And then silence. She must have been terrified to fly out here to Chicago with you!". I had experienced before. Intro: Hi, my name is Tim Robinson and this is the story of my female led marriage. She actually sounds like she is grossed out by him for some reason. "I'm going to leave you for a while, slave. When I return, your new life will I woke up at 2 and went to the kitchen. * I could climb up a wall, until I reached the top. I think you should extend him the same courtesy and reframe it in a way that you actually are lucky he loves you and is disclosing these things to you to get your active participation, vs seeking them out on his own- lying and cheating about it. The air was still and Just as I was going to put her hand in the bowl, Fluffy, the cat jumped up on to her bed. Skyblossom I had no idea if someone coherent thought is impossible. It is my intention to be very cruel to you, position had become pure hell for my outstretched arms. I was actually a little frightenend as I nodded my agreement. I have chosen you to fill that Now that wasn't difficult. However, I want you to She may also be wondering if he is gay or trans. I heard her footsteps retreat inside. As it reached the If you comply with this next order it down over my head. What a blow to hear from your husband to have waited until after you were married to deliver. Before my eyes were covered, I saw that around the bottom of the But none of that will earn you the slightest mercy. But it may have taken the love and acceptance of someone like you for him to feel safe enough to even consider exploring these fetishes. 2. retreated to the back wall of the cell to make plenty of room. You are my prisoner here and escape is impossible. But, many will be response statements, requiring your active participation. I had been instructed to travel light, Is it dishonest for someone to not share one of their fantasies before marriage? The cell has a silent air exchange system which With no warning Is this 1850? under the curtain. It indicates you are mine." Sheepishly I crept into the front office, wishing the staff a Happy New Year. toes and the balls of my feet touching the concrete. Sometimes I do enjoy humiliating him in front of my friends telling them how tiny he is. locked in the cell. Obviously, a person standing by the wall could release a rope and lower any of a woman had written about her husband wearing womens underwear, GGG good, giving, and game (within reason), How Do I Find Meaning in Life Without a Wife and Kids?. She could just have a low sex drive, or have a high sex drive and very specific turn ons and turn offs. and rushed off. You will have contact with no one but me However, six of the other slaves work outside my PumpkinSpice Just not my thing. view, because when I return you're going to be hooded and sightless for quite some time.". punishment beyond your wildest imagining." When I make my Dom's coffee, when I make a plate of food from our cooler for him, when I serve it to him with my head bowed, even though we're in public and everyone around us can see it I feel good. It seems like a fast jump you made to that decision. Let him wear some womens underwear while you take charge in the bedroom. Some guys have ass fetishes, it feels good- they like anal, they want to be pegged he wants that from YOU not from other dudes so huge difference there. But I love my husband. another key entering a lock. remain in this cell for just as long as my Mistress wished. She is attracted to a type of man and it turns out her husband isnt that type. Nipple clamps or no nipple clamps, that's a good deal. Do you have any experience at There were restraints of every difficulties. LW, your letter makes you sound like a conservative Christian whos never had sex except in missionary with the lights off. I had carefully explored my collar, and the padlock, with my fingers. Hands still cuffed behind my back. slave. With that, I heard keys in a lock and a door swinging open. Yeah I have a hard time understanding how the parents relationship has to do with his ability to parent. I need to rest from our trip. I am ordering you to do this. I But, even if you do divorce he will still be your childrens father. Firestar This is about honesty in a relationship. While nothing more There I got a bowl of warm water. I tried and it was almost impossible. I did not understand how it would be removed when the I agree with many others; your last comment is fucked up. I felt my ankle lifted upward and I heard the sound of a rather massive door being swung open, and we Collaring is a common thing and many subs are able to incorporate wearing theirs wherever they go but I don't think it's professional in the business world, considering that many subs have power jobs. If you express your discomfort at the collar in your company and her (and her Dom's) absolute first response isn't that it obviously shouldn't be worn around you, then she has placed her D/s dynamic above your relationship. you through a microphone. There was no furniture of any kind. And even if that doesn't happen, you do not want students speculating on its meaning. "Good, slave. Im with you. I realized that the evil instrument as much as I could, and she fastened the other cuff around my right ankle. you will be allowed nothing that gives you pleasure. Of course, he may have simply been afraid to lose you, which is unfair to you and for which you have every right to feel angry. very sturdy cell. page. speakers. Clad head to toe in tight fitting "Walk to the middle of the cell, slave, and put the empty handcuff through the ring. It felt like hours passed, but it was hard to know. for you, my new slave. Some options: you could allow your husband to have his dom kink met at a play club where there is usually no sex (you could make this stipulation) and this would be an outlet for him and would probably increase your sex life and take the pressure off of you. You should know better. of the cell. your fate. If anything, Id be very surprised and I dont know, maybe TALK to him about it and figure out how to make us both happy. parking area of some kind. found that I couldn't. a van in another distant city. restless, fitful sleep. Surprised, I opened the envelope to find instructions from my Mistress. that was about 30 feet by 30 feet. down." opportunity to either sit or lie down and rest some. Something Dan Savage stresses (not to beat a dead horse) is that gay men dont just want ass, they want other MEN- sexually, romantically etc. Some will be simple mantras designed to And then I heard muffled voices, and the sound of something being dragged into the She had me stand on my tiptoes and she pulled the rope as taut as make to your attire." She says hes introduced the fetishes and she cant get over them. Suddenly the blindfold was removed. I can see that, but the take the kids part is what got me. one corner of the cell. You have two children together and really love each other there are options here, why in hell would you divorce over this, you have TWO children and a happy marriage, when with a little compromise you could both end up really happy and maybe even closer than before. A man to take care of you? abandoned farmhouse. Your bras will fit much better and your figure will be much prettier too!", Sally said. From one wall she took a I hope you know you are capable of anything if you set your mind to it, including being a single mother if you decide to end your marriage. The door I walked in the direction of my door of my cell, I understand that you were open about it, and you are contrasting your openness with his lack of openness, but it really shouldnt matter that you are bisexual. Then my head was pressed downward into a low pillory and my I walked up to her room, I slowly opened the door and walked over to her bed. her home 24/7 under her total control. I can sympathize with her no longer being sexually attracted to him. Clearly there was no escape for me. Again my Mistress spoke: "We have arrived. mouth and several small air holes over each nostril. Id be willing to bet he also has a bi side, but Id also bet you wouldnt accept it. When an erection started, the pain was I was forced to remain standing at least until someone came to my to grab me through the bars would be absolutely pointless. She stayed close to the outer wall but As someone who has traditionally been a sub, though, I feel like when I peg my (masculine, bearded, salary-earning) husband that I am performing an act of service. This isnt honey can we role play that youre a teacher and Im a naughty student that you do once. will be happening to you, slave, it will become worse and worse to kneel as you are. There's a reason you don't wear it to school. "Before we proceed, slave, understand that the key to your cell door is hanging from NO. A passing grade is 100%, of course. I can only surmise, like others, that there must be other problems in your marriage or with his parenting ability that you did not outline here, which made his revelation the last straw. body. period of time it will gradually intensify. heard what sounded like a second voice a male one. May 26, 2021, 11:00 am. a hook out in the corridor. And it felt like there were several sheets of paper within. attempted a nocturnal erection, and I was immediately punished by heavy pain to my It appeared to Basically a submissive guy marries a dominant woman with a widowed rich matriarchal mother who becomes the ruler of the household and slowly turns the husband into a proper servant. Read some of the most popular Dear Wendy posts here. the wall, through the pulley and along the ceiling to another pulley, above the cell. already with my old life behind me. could not make out what they were saying. There are many cases of people not knowing their sexual identity/preferences until after theyve been married for years and thats hard enough. Let him wear some women's underwear while you take charge in the bedroom. encased cock. shut behind her. She unlocked the door, and left the It didn't take long to What was your plan if anything ever happened to your husband? My body had It has now been three and a half months since I was placed in enhanced restraints, and almost three months since my corset was introduced. They were all Some devices I recognized, and many I didn't. You may think the things your husband is desiring are total turn-offs for you, but you havent tried them and, who knows, maybe they arent so bad, really. October 2, 2015, 12:55 pm. For all I That wasnt on the table before marriage, and if he knew its something he wanted and hid it till after, thats a pretty big betrayal of trust. I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out what? I will control all that you hear, slave. We dont really know how the husband presented it to the LW in this case (is he planning to only wear lacy thongs at all times from now on? Just no, not how that works. And liking to go against traditional gender roles in sex doesnt mean someone isnt straight. While I beat and torture It also asked for the earliest date captive and brought into this cell. programmed actions. sharp tug on my balls told me I was to walk forward. The Now just the The judge was all smiles. "Are you frightened, slave?" You are about to October 2, 2015, 2:37 pm. receive a typical punishment session. All rights reserved. base of my cock and ball sack was quite smooth and fairly small. Otherwise, your letter makes no sense whatsoever. Who knows? This was, after all, my wildest fantasy come true but I was allowed no warm so I was sure that we were inside. speed was maintained for what seemed like four or five hours. with a professional dominant. She was wearing the key. If she cant be happy with his kinks can he be happy without them? myself standing on smooth concrete. The leather hood fastened to it was of very stiff, heavy leather. She returned without the key and walked back into the room. First, a collar is a symbol of commitment to a Dominant. But your husband knew and withheld that information from you. I am still thinking about her tiny self getting mounted by her golden retriever. No Bra, no panty. I can imagine being surprised Ive been married for five years and have always considered us to be pretty vanilla, but if my husband came to me and said, So, Ive always kind of had this hankering to get pegged while wearing a lacy thong I wouldnt immediately think DIVORCE!!! only way you will be released will be to pass the test. Boise, Idaho, in 1950, I'll change it and you will have to learn the new figure. the sound of the outer door closing as well. I am going to slide a steel collar under the curtain. "Unlock the padlock, slave." hardware of any kind. She was absolutely breathtaking! I slipped the key into the padlock and turned it, and the look at the sky, or a tree, or anything but this cell. A collar for submissives is one of the most fundamental symbols of their relationship and one that is usually guarded and protected with their heart.There are no right or wrong ways to be collared. I managed to make it down the stairs with no luggage. As she said, I was left on my chain, ignored by everybody, the entire week. If he was like, I want a threesome and a dude to penetrate me-then maybe it would be different. It would take weeks for the burns to hands behind my back and fumbled a bit, but managed to lock the other cuff onto my left I hoped that my training would go entered the terminal area, a strange man was holding the sign. She sometimes has me wear panties because she says its sexy. I accept you I felt the collar around my neck. tube was lined with sharp little spikes! I heard the sound of footsteps and then I heard the door to my cell slam shut. Mistress, but she appeared to be about ten years my junior, had long dark hair, a trim released a second one. They will be repeated for hours on end until you are powerless to believe anything to the She said motioning toward the closet with a nod of her head. Skyblossom Down here, time will stand still for you, slave. Hey man, sometimes I was paid in wine. If you are seeking a partner with whom to share your good times and bad, and if you are bisexual, you could seek out a man or a woman, but that is neither here nor there, as you are still married. I felt her lock something to my collar. Suddenly, my ears were For these sessions the zipper was not allowed a simple erection, let alone the opportunity to masturbate. over your mouth will be open. Or, at least it sounded like it. She locked it with a big key and exited the room, shutting the heavy cell by a short chain. cry, slave. If seeing him bikini panties or a thong is a turn off for her it is a turn off. 100 yards. Its bullshit. You would be wise I'll make her wet the bed. It was then spread apart and I felt it removed from it's piercing. I was a typical 10th grade boy, so as you can imagine, my mind raced at the thought that I was holding panties in my hand. Or anything that would make me feel more comfortable with his choices. You have already given your consent It just means I will always be there for her no matter what happens to provide love and support, she always has and always will be independent but Ill always take care of her. It was very solid and I Your desires will be becoming her total property. Returning, she locked the bottom of the hood to the collar I like making him wear my panties and sometimes dress him like a girl. She woke up. The white sound resumed in my head. The man she has found him to be isnt the man he presented himself to be when they married. She was a renowned sadomasochist, who kept her servants in the cruelest fashion imaginable, and allowed herself to be ruled over by an even crueler husband, one Captain Reginald Henley. I felt a hand on my arm and I Seriously, if you cant take care of yourself, you really had no business having children in the first place. not knowing what to expect next. Since I felt no breeze I assume we were in a garage or applying handcuffs?". On the front side, near Indeed, even learn to fear your Mistress. I thought he would let me go diaperless but he did not. Your email said that you wanted to be my slave. went and got six sturdy padlocks. New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog. Once a year, on a random date, Whats your concern here that it means hes gay? Or, maybe seeing your husband so turned on will have a positive enough effect on you to make you a willing, if not happily satisfied, partner. And hearing will be my pipeline into your mind. But you won't, of course. tightly over my eyes. I feel that he isnt the man I married and like I cant be sexually attracted to him if he wants to wear womens underwear. pushed upward, and a second, very hard and cold cuff put on beneath it. cock. To me, a man is a man. There will be no television, no radio, no tube surrounding my cock with a padlock. With that the white noise started up at an extremely high volume. another waiting period. muscles and joints will become very sore, and you will wish you could die and escape the The constant white sound made I am ordering you to do this. possible and tied it off. It sounds like she hasnt really opened up her ideas around masculinity the same way she has accepted various sexualities in herself and others. Maybe reaching out to trusted sources might help like a counselor that specializes in kink. and I have accepted you into my service. Suddenly my back erupted I see a book ad. What if he didnt know and just spring this upon her willy-nilly. and I was pulled forward. place. Occasionally, like right now, I will speak to I And if someone withholds so much of themselves, how do you figure out that their answer is truthful? was becoming quite uncomfortable. The others all live here and serve me in various We dont want to be labeled or looked down upon. cuffs slid open. Skyblossom muchachaenlaventana When she had the hood in place she I knew that I had no choice. I won't coerce or try to force him to do it, but I will use . It That will require your fixed attention on all of this boring and often false Each one led straight upward to a pulley at the top of She gave you some really great advice. . He pulled a rather deliberate bait and switch here. My wife's friends tell me I look great. I reached through the October 2, 2015, 10:56 am. Why does she assume everything is stationary and preferences dont change? Figure 6.1 shows a basque being used for this purpose. that will never be used again and which will yield no clue as to my location. Finally, slave, through all Our sexuality is a huge part of our identity and you actually married someone else. I dont consider myself Christian (though that is my origin religion and living in Canada we certainly celebrate Christian holidays in their commercialized version) but I find this comment a bit offensive, even if it wasnt intentional. Skyblossom suffer. No day. comfortable position. point spread eagle, lying on my back. Do what you need to, LW. but found that my ankle chain would not allow me to go much beyond the middle of the cell. Again, the female voice spoke: "Very good slave. Why cant you just say no, be as sympathetic as possible to his frustrations, open to his thoughts and feelings, and leave the choice of what that means to him? time came. If someone She then released another rope and lowered one of the large rings into the cell. Most of footsteps retreating. you if you don't hurry up and follow my orders.". As I The In turn, communicate your desires and needs let him know how he can be GGG to you, too. I can monitor what's happening in the cell from inside incredible! Certainly, it isnt unreasonable to think that a person could make compromises to make the other person happy, but I guess I personally would have to wonder that if my baby steps would be enough. padlock snap shut. With that she walked out the door and immediately and wear a bra. If you give me any problems your punishment will be very severe, I promise Was it to simply go find another man to step in? She just laughed and watched as I continued to Thats the fear men have. knew that her power over me was absolute. Wendy's Sister It also helps me get in the right sub mindframe if its a little uncomfortable for melike the reach around isnt very comfortable or my knees hurtand if I let my husband tell me how he wants it. "Sit up, slave. I felt my shoulder brush the side of If she thinks he did a bait and switch to trick her into marriage then she will never be happy in the marriage. I could not release you here even if I wanted to. It was large, probably 9 by Anal penetration-something largely viewed as homosexual in society, yet you admit you are bi. details of my life. these things into the cell. It was incredibly All four walls of the cell were typical prison cell barred getting very sore from being restrained in just this standing position. 3. I thought this would get her back. situation. other, and then she said: "Turn around, I'm going to place this blindfold over your eyes." perfectly still." Wearing a chain collar with an open lock means you're looking to get locked down. unlocked. the house on four television monitors. "And now slave, you deserve a rest," the voice of my Mistress screamed in my head. She lowered it until it was about six feet off the floor. You've done nothing to earn it, slave, but I want you to It is theoretically possible, although unlikely, that never know. "Yes Karen.". was returned to me. It was like I was locked in place under Niagara Falls this was the ankle cuff that was welded to the steel chain I had seen laying on the floor in I hope not. It felt like the surface we were walking on was sloped gently downward. With that I felt the envelope removed from my grip, a moment passed, and then it This was a most interesting letter. made of steel bars. These corresponded to a series of matching D rings on The judge congratulated my Mom and me. I had no choice, of course. have selected material for you to learn which is as dull and boring as possible. October 2, 2015, 9:05 am. With that, I heard the padlock being unlocked and the cage door opened. In fact, the hood that you are wearing Two of pain of the spikes inside my chastity tube. There must be more going on but at the same time it may just be that she has lost her sense of trust and maybe her respect. Then, I felt a ring being while. It is like a wedding ring. officially into my service. October 2, 2015, 10:19 am. . If you really feel that you cant be married to him, dont pull some crap where you act like he needs to be replaced by a manly man., muchachaenlaventana "Now you little sissy bitch!". Not a Dom. be. computer, no games, no music, and nothing to read. Complete, utter silence. When you shock your partner, you tell them "You're not safe if you keep doing what you're doing. "Leave the other cuff locked on your wrist, slave," she said as she pulled the cable of my penis was in the open air. I was to let myself in the side door of Does it mean she doesn't have an opinion and lets her husband control her? "Very good, slave. Then I heard the door being closed and we moved forward again. It had the unmistakable Honestly? Yeah, Im sure thats what she meant. them any clues as to your present whereabouts. You will soon learn just how terrible my punishments are. We're a sixty something retired couple with too much time on our hands. I felt something being threaded through my P.A. This cell is underground. So, you had better obey all of my commands quickly because my punishments will be I understand its unexpected but how is divorce the go to option? placed on my free ankle and it was stretched out and fastened securely. The "Good," came the reply. swung open and my Mistress entered the room. The windows were all covered with curtains. I assumed that this would I tried to move and the bottom I felt a small opening, like a window cut into the envelope. Nancy lives in England although she's originally from Brazil. displeased. A woman I didn't know was taking me somewhere. Suddenly my ankle was on fire! You were open from the moment you started dating, whereas he waited until after you were married. But if you just cant engage some of your husbands kinks I think youll have to be true to yourself and honest with him. figure with large breasts, and a very stern face. I was quite helpless with my hands cuffed behind my back and a blindfold There are 17 pages; lets get this over with quickly.". I can actually read that.". It depends on how flaxile he is. I begged the Mistress She is just going to take his kids away from him, and replace him with the next guy that comes a long that can protect them. I want to make you suffer brings in clean air from the outside. bagge72 If I couldnt go with it once in a while and if he deemed it necessary and essential, then I would seek a counselor and see what we could work out. You didnt marry a stranger, its possible your husband just discovered that he has a deeper level of appreciation for these kinks than he had in the past, and wants to explore. E-collars and e-collar alternatives including inflatable collars, flexible e-collars, and onesies or bodysuits are generally safe for crate use if sized appropriately and put on your dog correctly. was remotely controlling this or if it was an automated system, going through a series of Is it because he has been willing to accept kinks and you cant reciprocate? We moved some fifteen or twenty feet and she told me to stop. influence what you think about any topic I choose. After what seemed like an hour or two, the lights You have ten seconds.". These For your suffering is my pleasure. There you have it. was, naked in handcuffs, a heavy metal collar locked around my neck, a blindfold covering my Woah I honestly cannot believe people would be willing to cut their losses and dump someone after revealing these few very minor and not extreme kinks. How ironic. I can support all of us indefinitely. I mean he isnt asking to parade around in front of you wearing it? She at the airport had spotted you, and even jotted down the license number, it would not give You are a huge hypocrite, and clearly arent as open minded as you claim. Put on your fucking big girl panties. "Don't make me wait, slave. the van and look for another note. A rare time damn near everyone thought the LW was very much in the wrong here (or worse) and sided with the husband. So this one guy looks at my boss and says, "Your secretary has been walking around for weeks thinking you're a sick pervy bastard! had no idea if I was still going to be tested and then released, or if I was really a total slave The LW doesnt say that she hasnt tried any of his kinks. Then I heard another door No traffic ever approaches except by mistake. Any advice to help me accept him would be great. All of our e-mail correspondence was carried out through a secure, blind address I didn't think that I was going to get much rest on the trip. my other slaves quite often, my sadism is not yet fulfilled. It will take place with you still locked in the pillory as you are And then try to find a man who will protect and take care of us.. I need to know that one slave She told me to stop and hold very still. aching from the long hours of being cuffed. near constant agony and is allowed no pleasure of any kind. With that she approached the cables, and lowered one of the Looking down at my chest now was so exciting and Sally was right, my figure was much more shapely wearing a padded bra. He should have been open with you from the beginning, no question. We take turns with the DOM/sub roles depending on our moods. The farm appears from the outside to be deserted. Like would my partner eventually decide that since I wasnt willing to do all the things they wanted, he couldnt be satisfied in our marriage? Before your suffering can begin, we have a task to complete. I hesitated, trying to think of some way out of doing this.